Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Word of advice to the fellas out there

If you're married, and are not sure you want to be married, talk to your wife about it.  If you have a kid/kids, and are not sure you are in love with your wife anymore, tell her before you have another kid.  She can't read your mind.  By keeping silent, you are affecting a lot of people.  This is shit that will last a lifetime, all because you are too ashamed, lack courage, don't want to hurt feelings, don't want to rock the boat - whatever.  Be a man. Be a person. Stand up. Make a decision. Don't just let things go on out of convenience.  These are real lives you're impacting.

That is all.  Take my advice, boys.  I am wise.

2 comments:

Adrian said...

Wise words. You must have gone to the School of Hard Knocks. I've always said the best decision I ever made was NOT to have kids with the first wife. NOT. EVER. I thought I'd stick it out for the long haul (and I did for a veeeerry long time), but I consciously made the decision not to have kids. Thank God. Or whoever.

Debbie said...

I was looking for the *Like* button for this...